There are hundreds of popular institutions that teach us how to make our lives better. To make them more healthy, more organised, more productive, more stress-free and, hopefully, more happy. Interestingly, though death is such an important happening in our lives, we do not pay much attention to it and there is no institution that really teaches about death, what it means and how it affects us. There seems to be no takers for a course in the Art of Dying!
All of us fear death because death brings to an end our life on earth and also because we are apprehensive of what will happen to us after we die. To not get intimidated by fear of death we must know the art of dying.
What is death? Krishna says in the Bhagavad Gita that He is death (kala) in the form of Time (also kala). Time consumes everything, from the tiniest atom to all those mighty universes in the material world. The Vedic concept of death is that it is an integral part and a recurrent happening in the continuous life of every living entity on earth. Krishna tells Arjuna in chapter two that there is no death for the jiva or soul, "Never was there a time when I did not exist, nor you, nor these rulers of men.
Nor shall all of us cease to be hereafter". Death pertains only to the physical body and "...the soul merely changes bodies just as the body changes clothes".
The Katha Upanishad explains the Vedic concept of death and Garuda Purana deals comprehen-sively with rituals pertaining to death, graphically describing the soul’s journey after death to its next birth.
Most believe death is the ultimate happening in one’s life. But there is more, depending on your karma. Each new birth affords us an opportunity to better our circumstances through performing good karma, which means following the injunctions laid down in the shastras.
We, however, choose to fritter away our lives in mundane activities mainly to satisfy our sensual cravings.
Adi Shankaracharya says that one is very fortunate to have got human birth for it is the only vehicle by which one can attain the ultimate goal of life, moksha or liberation, and hence it must not be wasted in living a frivolous life. More fortunate is he who has a burning desire for liberation. And still more fortunate is the one to get a bona fide spiritual master to take him to this goal.
Krishna says: "What-ever object a person thinks of at the time of death, he attains to that object alone... Whoever thinks of only Me even at the time of death, attains to My state on abandoning his body. There is no doubt about this".
He once again reinforces: "He who, at the time of his death, engages himself in remembering the Supreme Lord with full devotion, will certainly attain to Him". This is possible only if one has Him constantly in one’s thoughts for which one needs to do spiritual practice or sadhana.
Some even crave a painful death so that they are forced to cry out to God, thereby remembering Him during the last moments. However, if your desire to be with Him is consistent and strong, it will manifest at the final hour so that you are united with Him.