blame / Ñ bleIm; NAmE / verb, noun verb
blame sb/sth (for sth) | blame sth on sb/sth to think or say that sb/sth is responsible for sth bad:
She doesn’t blame anyone for her father’s death. Ç A dropped cigarette is being blamed for the fire. Ç Police are blaming the accident on dangerous driving.I am a Tarantino Fan/AC
Ever Blamed some one else for your mistakes,I did and even lost count of it, why and how i mastered the art of blaming ?
In schools days blame teachers when you get a bad grade or marks ! oh that math's teacher is very rude he tends towards Favoritism,and i had a fight with him that's why he gave less marks and actually my imagination used to transcend ,like i used to raise my bar every time i blame my teachers ,by the time i reached 10 Grade i completed my P.HD in blaming .
They used to compete in me some times, when ever I get very bad marks they say he is a dull student he is destined to be like that, He is very lazy and his mind is always wandering some where else !I had a Compliment once He is Regularly Irregular to school.and my story has a lots and lots of such incidents and what are they pointing to I developed a Good habit called Blaming.
may be you have some experiences like this in your child hood!! please share with Us we appreciate that. Nope I am not finished yet this is just beginning.
I used to Blame each and every thing under the sky for what ever happens to me , My blame list starts from my parents ,god,teachers,friends and so on and every one gets their turn depending on situations and I was WRONG all the time and no body corrected me (oops! old habits die hard) ok no more blaming .
I was reading some book I think it’s Robin Sharma’s Books if my memory serves,he says not to think what you lost think about what you have,Don't Blame your dad for not being a Billionaire make sure your son doesn't blame the same thing on you ! What an idea!
That is the main message of this post ,People always blame some thing or some one to let some thing go,like a vent in a pressure cooker ,people also uses blaming as a vent ,that makes them relieved of the mistake or bad thing they have done.it is a excuse to let their mind relax and guilt covered and some time used to save themselves in Certain situations.
So when next time you did a mistake or bad don't try to blame someone else,that purifies your self Remember Never cheat the man in the mirror ,Just calm down in such a situation and analyze what you have done and more Blaming =More Fooling yourself ,leave fooling others you want to be fool in your own eyes come on,Blaming is a action of weak ,You are strong as strong as the strongest man/Women ever walked this planet,be humble ,brave and strong and face the consequences and this is a much better approach than venting your feelings through blaming.
It is easy to blame but hard to Control ! no good will happen to you if you have the same habit of blaming ,step out come out of the box and see the world ,More often you blame and seek a excuse more weak you are becoming day by day .Patience is a Virtue my friend and control your immediate reactions and itch to blame some one else it hurts very much at the receiving end so think twice before you open your mouth Next time to Blame !!!
Hope this will be last day in your life for Blaming Habit specially for your mistakes ! I am a changed man and A good habit called blaming is no more a habit for me!!!